3-3-3 Rules of Adopting a Rescue Pug

What to expect when bringing home a rescue pug

Adopting a rescue pug is an exciting and rewarding experience, but it’s also a big adjustment for your new companion. Many dogs coming from shelters or unstable situations need time to decompress and adapt to their new home, and pugs are no exception.

That’s where the 3-3-3 Rule comes in. It’s a helpful guideline to understand what your pug may be going through during their transition. While every dog is unique, this rule offers a general framework for what to expect in the first 3 days, 3 weeks, and 3 months after adoption.

A Note from Bay Area Pug Project

It’s important not to give up on your new dog. The first few days or weeks can be overwhelming. You may even experience a little doubt or what some call “adopter’s remorse.” That’s normal—but please don’t take it out on the dog by returning them too soon.

Your pug is adjusting to a completely new world, and they need time, space, and compassion to settle in. They are doing the best they can, and so are you.

Rescue dogs often come with unknown histories, but they all deserve a chance. Be patient. Ask for help when you need it. And remember that the bond you’re building now will grow into something truly special with time.

The First 3 Days: Decompression

During the first few days, your pug may feel overwhelmed, anxious, or unsure of their new environment. This is totally normal.

What to expect:

• They might sleep a lot or pace and pant.
• Appetite may be low.
• They could hide, avoid interaction, or seem shut down.
• Accidents indoors are common—even for dogs who were housetrained in the past.
• They may test boundaries or appear “out of it” as they process the change.

What you can do:

• Keep things calm and predictable. Avoid too many visitors or outings.
• Set up a quiet space with a cozy bed and access to food, water, and potty breaks.
• Let them come to you when they’re ready—don’t force interaction.
• Stick to a simple routine to help build trust and safety.
• For male dogs, utilize belly bands to prevent marking or accidents in the house.

The First 3 Weeks: Settling In

After a few weeks, your pug will begin to feel more comfortable in their new environment. This is when their personality really starts to shine—and when new behaviors (both good and not-so-good) may emerge.

What to expect:

• They’ll begin exploring more and showing curiosity.
• They may start to test boundaries or exhibit anxiety when left alone.
• Training opportunities arise, but bad habits can also begin if structure is missing.

What you can do:

• Start consistent training and reinforce house rules gently and positively.
• Offer regular potty breaks, feeding times, and low-stress routines.
• Continue building trust with play, short walks, and cuddles on their terms.
• Begin slowly introducing them to new people, pets, or environments.

The First 3 Months: Building Trust and Routine

By the three-month mark, most pugs feel safe, secure, and at home. You’re likely seeing more affection, confidence, and playfulness. This is when real bonding begins.

What to expect:

• They’ll start feeling like part of the family.
• Routine behaviors become consistent, including sleeping, eating, and potty habits.
• They’ll look to you for cues, comfort, and guidance.

What you can do:

• Keep reinforcing positive behaviors and boundaries.
• Explore new activities together like outings, toys, or basic training games.
• Keep up with vet visits, grooming, and anything else that supports their long-term health and comfort.
• Celebrate how far they’ve come—and how far you’ve come together.

At Bay Area Pug Project, we’re here to support you and your pug every step of the way. The 3-3-3 Rule is just a guide—but behind it is a powerful message: give them time, and they’ll give you their whole heart.